Fashion Friday Concealed Carry Style – Spring Sweater & Hats
Spring sweaters are the thing!
Spring sweaters are the thing!
4/6/21 # Travel tips – Learn from my mistakes
Some of the best tactics to keep your family safe…

| Now that the Easter Bunny has come and things are beginning to look a little more normal, are you planning a vacation this summer? When my kids were young, I liked to take my kids to different places during the summer and explore our great country. I imagine after being restricted from traveling, my guess is many of you are itching to take a road trip! Whether it be to see some friends, family or somewhere new. Here’s 3 concealed carry tips for traveling with protection (your firearm). First, and I’d say the most important tips is to know the concealed carry laws along your route and for your final destination. There’s an easy way to do this, assuming you already have a concealed carry permit in your home state. This map will show you the other states that honor your license to carry, so you’ll know immediately, if you can carry where you are going. To reference a previous blog on traveling cross country with a firearm click here. |
Secondly, knowing what to do if you get pulled over by police. Remember your Driver’s Ed class? Place your hands at 10 and 2 on the steering wheel, turn on the dome light if it’s dark and wait for the police to approach you.
* I’ve heard this Tip if you are concealing and you get pulled over, extend your fingers out (hands of course being at 10 and 2 on steering wheel) that this is a non-verbal way to politely communicate to the officer that you’re armed.
Remember, when traveling, to check the state laws whether or not you must notify the officer if you have a firearm.
One other item you might find quite useful for traveling, depending on state laws, would be to have a portable safe for traveling or storage.
Highly recommended, especially when you’re in a new town, to practice Cooper’s color codes of situational awareness. What are color codes?

| Develop a plan. Make sure everyone in the family knows what the plan is, any key words and the expected action family members are to take. All the hotels have escape routes posted. Make sure you have your own escape route too. If you have small children, practice it often so they are familiar with the words and the routine. Albeit, a little trickery when traveling with young ‘uns. Remember, knowledge is power and being prepared can save lives. AND, don’t forget to have fun and enjoy the scenery! *tips from USCCA |
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First, Congratulations on becoming Self Reliant! Woohoo
Secondly, that means it’s time for a closet redo and wardrobe make-over!

I’m sure you’re another fashion-ista who’s recently discovered the world of dressing dilemmas when it comes to concealed carry. Honey, you are not alone!
It’s time for a closet shuffle (click here to read about how to organize your clothes) and everyone goes through this wardrobe transition when they make the decision to carry on body for safety. After all you understand you will be your own first responder.
You may be one of the new five million of new gun owners joining forces with many other Americans who exercise their right to bear arms. Some choose gun ownership for sport, hunting or simply for home or self defense. After all, these are some crazy times.
For those who are gun owners for self defense, I bet you’re a bit shocked that your existing wardrobe doesn’t quite work and your firearm likely imprints in your form fitting, body hugging clothes.
This is not just an excuse to say “I have nothing to wear”! but you should take some time and give your closet a make-over.
Really look at your clothes. Does the item still fit? Do you love it? The big test comes when you try on the garment, add your firearm to your body and observe in the mirror. Can you, or do you believe the “average person” would notice the firearm imprinting its silhouette through your clothes?
But seriously, I had a closet full of professional, stylish, form fitting and tailored clothes (having worked most of my life in interior design industry working with home builders and their new buyers).
You men have it easier 😊 but it’s not so easy for women to conceal a firearm. For example, many of our (women) clothes have small pockets, barely big enough for lipstick let alone a gun.

That’s one reason why I started designing clothing. I know what its like to be so frustrated and I want to help you to never be a victim by making it easy for you to choose to carry.
How? By giving you garments with stylish designs and give discreet access to your firearm. I’ve taken the worry out of dressing. Plus, our clothes are proudly Made in America.
Not only are you concerned about someone noticing the bump on your hip, but your ability to retrieve it. After all, that’s what will matter.
It’s one thing to walk around so that no one can “see” that you’re armed. It’s another thing to actually be able to draw your firearm without a lot of effort.
Most of us carry somewhere around the waist. Although, this is considered the best location and most desired because your arms and hands can easily reach your firearm.
For example, it’s easier to draw (your firearm) when you carry appendix, or anywhere along the front of the body from 9 o’clock to 3 o’clock.
It becomes a bit more challenging, carrying further behind your natural side where your arms must now reach behind and backwards for a 4 o’clock draw or further if you carry at the small of back.
Do you have to move your arms to an unnatural position to reach your firearm?
If so, you may want to consider either a different holster or carrying in a different location. Of course, you have to do what’s best for YOU. That’s why you’ve got options. There’s not one answer for everyone.
I also take into consideration what if or when you begin to feel uneasy about a situation, can discreetly grip your firearm ahead of time (just in case) and know that you will not be a victim.
These are the skills we learn and will practice and hopefully never need.
As the seasons change, I hear many women struggle to continue carrying on body. As temperatures rise, along with hemlines, it’s not uncommon for women to look more at off body carry options like a purse or briefcase. Of course, a girl likes to have options! And, make a fashion statement.
Yes, you can be armed, fashionable (and feminine). We’re here to help you do just that! AND we’ll keep you incognito!
Let us know what your biggest challenges are in the comments below.

Congratulations!!
You’ve come to the decision that a firearm for self defense and protection makes sense, but you’re not sure of the process.
Is there really a background check to purchase a firearm? Everyone buying a gun MUST fill out Form 4473
Chances are if you never been down this road or you don’t have a friend to share some inside information with you, it can be a little overwhelming. After all , it’s an Official Government Document – eek!

For example, date of birth must be in format with 2-digit month and day, and 4 digit year.
There are no abbreviations for state of birth.
If you have a concealed carry weapons permit or license, the background check is quicker. If you don’t have this license, it’s best to included your social security number; unless you plan to wait for quite some time.
The background check is normally about a 20-30 minutes; unless there are some hiccups. If you were thinking about falsifying information – that not only is a big hiccup but it’s a felony charge!
Which can cause you to banned from owning a firearm.
So, take your time, go slow, and read all the questions. If you make a mistake, draw one single line through the error, and initial it. You don’t want to start over nor does the store as all documents are batched and counted.
Typically, you’ll be able to go home with your firearm but pack some patience. Specially if your purchasing a firearm on a weekend when the system is very busy.
Ironically, many who argue for gun control have no idea what’s on Form 4473 and this background process. Fight to protect your right to own (any) firearm.
